RLI
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Wow, thats serious shit there going on.... and nice to know you can share your thoughts (light or dark) with us all here.
hope Coopernook does your mind and body a world of good...
Jim.
Thanks mate,
Regards,
RLI (Paul)
Wow, thats serious shit there going on.... and nice to know you can share your thoughts (light or dark) with us all here.
hope Coopernook does your mind and body a world of good...
Jim.
G,evening folks,
Firstly, I would like thank you all for your kind words of support.
As previously stated, the last seven weeks of my life have been a total nightmare. I have always held the view that taking one’s life (suicide) was the easy way out. I now know firsthand how an individual can fall into this terrible void of total hopeless and despair.
Three weeks ago after my forth operation, I was in tremendous pain and in a serious world of hurt. I did not want my wife and children continuingly seeing me suffering the way I was. If I had access to a firearm then, I would have taken my life.
At that time in my life i have never felt so depressed, lonely and totally incapacitated and worthless as a human being. Even though I have a beautiful wife and two beautiful little girls and a great bunch of mates/friends. I just wanted to end the misery for my family and friends so they could get on with there lifes.
My stupid logic was that financially due to my military service, my service pension, superannuation and other benefits that the Army provided me would have set my wife and children up for a secure future.
So far I have had six operations in seven weeks. This time fingers crossed the pain is now falling under control. Once again thanks for your kind words of support. I am shocked that people that i have never met can show so much kindness and support.
PS, I have to give a specially mention to both Old Tony and Scotty Bobcat who have kept in contact with both my wife and myself during this horrid crisis period. They have aided in keeping my morale up when I was extremely vulnerable.
Also a special thanks to senior member Redgie for his kind words of wisdom.
It was fantastic catching up with Tony & Helen at Coopernook on Saturday, my father-inlaw and i were humbled by their hospatality.
One last thought, if any of you ever feel the need to give up on life, please call a friend, life-line, beyond blue or me!
Regards,
RLI (Paul
G,day folks,
My health continues to deteriorate (I feel like a one legged man in an arse kicking competition!).
Since my last e-mail I have had a further two more operations up my guzzats! (Arse to you uncouth individuals.)
I try my best to maintain my sense of humour; however, at times I have suffered serve depression and felt like I have fallen into a bottomless void (like falling into a dark canyon, knowing there is no way out.)
At present I have been transferred to Greenslopes Hospital in Brisbane, QLD. Hopefully the specialist up here can help me find answers to what is causing my problem. Will keep you informed.
PS, Thanks for your thoughts!
RLI (Paul)
Thats no good Paul. I really hope that the QLD doctor's are able to get you some answers, and get you on the road to a speedy recovery.
Its good that you are willing to share your thoughts about how you are feeling. I now know how hard it can be for people to talk about there problems.
My father is a Vietnam vet and a few years back his health got pretty bad, he then started dreaming that he was back fighting again this was brought on by post traumatic stress. The trouble was he never spoke to us about it, so we never new that he was in such despair.
It all become to much for him and he went into his garage, shut all the windows and doors and turned on his motor bike.
lucky for him and all of us who love him, his wife had forgotten something and returned home. She new something was wrong when she herd the bike and raced in to find my dad unconscious.
A ambulance arrived and revived him, he was then raced off to hospital, where he spent hrs in a hyperbaric chamber.
This was so hard for us to understand as we just never new how trapped in the black hole dad felt. He told us later that he just felt that there was no way out for him, and that ending it all seemed like the only way to stop his suffering.
I find it so sad . I thought i was allot closer to dad and i should of known that things were as bad as they were. In one way it has brought my 3 siblings and i closer to dad, which im very grateful.
Dad has since made a great recovery with allot of help from the doctors and veteran affairs (they were able to help dad find the help he really needed)
I am so glad that i still have my father around to watch my son grow up, and that my son has is pop to learn from as i did.
Just wanted to share that with everyone especially Paul. Mate you are not alone in feeling like you have no way out, as im sure you know so many in fact to many people have been where you were but never got help in time.
Like you said if we ever feel the need to talk just find a mate or some family, or just anyone and tell them what is going on.
Wishing you all the very best Paul.
Regards, Nath
Hang in there 'dig', you can do it....were all behind you
Not good news at all!! Although if it is chrones the good news it is manageable as a good friend of mine has it.
Hope things get better for you soon paul!
Bryan
Keep your spirits high Paul.I havn't stopped thinking about you mate. I hope you are in the best of care now that you are in QLD and getting what you need. Don't hesitate to give me a call mate. Text me your number at the hospital. Thinking of you and the family mate. Scotty
What a pack of assholes (the thieves , not RLI - no pun intended) knocking off stuff from a hospital car park.
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