I have every intention of replacing mine - not only because we tow 2.5T, but because I fear what a small amount of damage or corrosion will do to the current tranny cooler which is immersed in the radiator coolant.
I've also tried retrieving the transmission temperature and the TCM just doesn't report it up the line, so I can't get it from the ECM. It means that I'll be looking to fit my own tranny temperature sensor (and I really hope they don't mind).
I don't know where to get one from, but the mechanic I will be seeing to do this modification sourced quite a large one for my Commodore which only had a small tranny cooler and we were asking the Commodore to tow the 1.8T van that we used to own. I'll try to find out where he got it and what it costs.